Challenging the Problem of Pursuit in Christian Dating
by Wendee Mannon September 24, 2015

This video interview with the CEO of OnDaySix.com Wendee Mannon, explores the topic of a man's pursuit in Christian dating and the importance of the woman's role towards the man to invite pursuit. It helps answer the question "Why Aren't the Men Pursuing?"


8 Comments

Feb 4, 2018 12:11:29 globalgirl39
It's an ongoing question (why aren't men pursuing?) I've had with other single women. This has been such a refreshing and hopeful answer to part of the problem! It's the women. Thank you for pointing out our part in the solution. We are not powerless, waiting in our tower for "the one", Ha ha! I believe you've given power back to the female in a way that doesn't make us aggressive, but a full participant! Thank you very very much! I'll be sharing this!

Jan 1, 2017 18:32:53 twobecomeone7
Good stuff. Thank you.

Oct 24, 2016 21:13:30 whitelily
So where are all the men over 60?

Aug 29, 2016 05:03:12 kristofer
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Aug 29, 2016 04:53:52 kristofer
MAKE CONTENT or COURSES THAT PREPARES US FOR MARRIAGE FINANCIALLY, EATING HEALTHY, PURPOSE etc... build us, and we will stay on your site for a long time. Also you could offer a secret six section, where people who have completed the courses / teachings that prepare you for marriage get to potentially meet each other online. Also you could offer 1 couple per month a PAID FOR DATE by OnDaySix, and film them on the date, then post videos of the date. Like a Date Makeover for the people. Create a real proven system and process with step by step video lessons that set us free financially. Create a real proven system and process with step by step video lessons that set us free from lust, and the people who take it get a PURITY BADGE on their profile. They also get access to a PURITY SUPPORT GROUP, where students can watch the lessons together and chat back and forth about their purity and struggles.

Aug 29, 2016 04:27:30 kristofer
Thank you for exploring the hindrances to connection. For sure one of the enemies goal is to keep us isolated, alone, and a single broken Christian for the rest of our lives. Jesus spoke of men becoming eunuchs Mathew 19:12 and the Law tries to bind us and keep us in a cycle of condemnation and trying to fix ourselves only to live defeated lives. I believe some things that prevent mens pursuit are just the process of maturity in our relationship to Jesus. We are to mature into perfect love and the character and nature of Jesus, and character takes time and alot of pain, Romans 5:4. Furthermore, there is so much slavery in Christianity, Christ set us free, but satan is constantly binding us with lies. A man is to provide, love unconditionally, and protect at a basic level. In order to provide he must escape this worlds system which teaches us to be dumb, broke, and someone else's slave. All this said, Jesus won, and slowly the Holy Spirit is setting men free and raising them to be leaders who raise up leaders. If i was a woman, I would look for a man who lets Jesus love Him, who is mature in Christ, who has joy not religion in his life, who has multiple streams of income, and a vision from the Lord, with the friends to carry out the vision. Maybe if this site created GROUPS for PROBLEMS or AREAS TO GROW IN like LOVE etc... then the guys and girls could work together and cultivate relationship online. For example guys and girls could be chatting about FINANCES and you release a video about finances and all the guys and girls can chat about their finances and kingdom business ideas etc. It would be a topic of connection. Then from there they can go deeper in their relationship by chatting etc... Hope that helps!

May 31, 2016 13:26:15 Donaldfaith
WOW! excellent

Nov 13, 2015 14:45:42 Ibijoe2016
True Talk thanks


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